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hartfire · 61-69
Some very unfortunate attitudes built in to the way you worded your question.
Very few men "take" women. When they do they are rapists and if caught they go to prison.
Successful men ask - and leave if the answer is no. They want only a woman who is willing. They're also good at knowing how, when, where and who to approach. And they work to make themselves attractive on all levels.
To think there is "nothing" left is thinking as if women are some kind of consumable object that can be possessed or owned. This is not so. Women are people with their own independence, wishes, desires, personalities and goals.
You will have little or no success until you view women as whole human beings with whom you can have a relationship, not things to be owned and used.
Your attitude, on its own, would be enough to turn most women off.
Try learning some people skills, insight and genuine empathy.
Very few men "take" women. When they do they are rapists and if caught they go to prison.
Successful men ask - and leave if the answer is no. They want only a woman who is willing. They're also good at knowing how, when, where and who to approach. And they work to make themselves attractive on all levels.
To think there is "nothing" left is thinking as if women are some kind of consumable object that can be possessed or owned. This is not so. Women are people with their own independence, wishes, desires, personalities and goals.
You will have little or no success until you view women as whole human beings with whom you can have a relationship, not things to be owned and used.
Your attitude, on its own, would be enough to turn most women off.
Try learning some people skills, insight and genuine empathy.