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Anything to do with romance seems to turn out wrong.

Am I unusual or have I just not tried enough? 😢

The last guy lives miles away and is only after sex.
Forgetmeknot · 41-45
Nope. I have terrible romances and relationships. I'm a "can't do it, teach it" when it comes to romance. I know what it's supposed to be about, what a healthy relationship is supposed to look like but I get drawn in to toxic ones every time. I'd like to think it's me that causes it because it'd give me a measure of control but the guys all have their other relationships completely toxic... And I mean they have charges not hearsay. So I don't create the toxicity I pick toxic people and then create the toxic relationship with them. I often wonder what I would be like with a guy who has non-toxic past relationships and I wonder would I make the toxicity on my own but I'm too frightened to find out incase I disrupt an "okay" person by being toxic. Really I should try it at least once because I might not and if I did create toxicity I could end the relationship. I get into relationships I then want/need to run away from. I think recreating my childhood of running away.

So if you have a pattern maybe try to work out where it comes from and tackle it from there.
Forgetmeknot · 41-45
@PaleandPolluted I just read it's a schizoid trait to be frighted of hurting others and that creates alot of isolation. So now I'm thinking am I schizoid lol

But yeah, there's loads of shit bags out there. Loads.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Forgetmeknot I'm very possessive and sensitive. Definitely ill in some way.
Forgetmeknot · 41-45
@PaleandPolluted aren't we all lol
SW-User
Relationships based purely on sex never last
SW-User
If a person is getting into a "relationship" based on being a lover, yep. Specially if they are already committed to someone.
Andywandyb · 31-35, M
A lot of guys are. Maybe Try differently?
Bang5luts · M
Tell him to come hang out after he
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Bang5luts he said he was ok with just hanging out
HotPizza71 · 51-55, M
@PaleandPolluted he better be. You're in charge of your body, and he's got to respect that

 
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