I miss going to church. But I don't like the way people gossip about members like it's their right.

exactly

i haven't been to church in ages .. my family used to go three times a week

I don’t miss it at all for that reason and their hypocrisy

That's why I quit going. When I was getting a divorce from my first wife, many people who I had considered friends turned their backs on me. I don't considered them actual people of faith anymore and decided that church wasn't the place for me anymore.

You don't go to church for them. Everybody is at a different level of communion. You go for you.