Prophet Mohammed said :
“The believer is friendly and befriended, for there is no goodness in one who is neither friendly, nor befriended. The best of people are those who are most beneficial to people.”
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@SW-User
That is unfortunate to hear sweetheart…
Surprisingly the Quran warns us of the possibility that our family could be abusive/dangerous After all sometimes our enemies are those who are the closest to us :
At-Taghabun - Verse 14
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O believers! Indeed, some of your spouses and children are enemies to you,so beware of them. But if you pardon, overlook, and forgive ˹their faults˺, then Allah is truly All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.}
However it doesn’t seem to me that that is the case in your family.
If it’s just some unfriendly gestures and words from some relatives try to over look
And perhaps remind them of the hadiths about good character indirectly
Have a good day
That is unfortunate to hear sweetheart…
Surprisingly the Quran warns us of the possibility that our family could be abusive/dangerous After all sometimes our enemies are those who are the closest to us :
At-Taghabun - Verse 14
{
O believers! Indeed, some of your spouses and children are enemies to you,so beware of them. But if you pardon, overlook, and forgive ˹their faults˺, then Allah is truly All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.}
However it doesn’t seem to me that that is the case in your family.
If it’s just some unfriendly gestures and words from some relatives try to over look
And perhaps remind them of the hadiths about good character indirectly
Have a good day
SW-User
I know spouses can be our enemies. Mine was that’s why I divorced him. Sadly many people are stuck with abusive spouses, either husband or wife. I think anyone that is cruel to their spouse should be deeply punished.
As for family, it’s mostly uncles and cousins. They just don’t like me or my family. They try their best to avoid me. They don’t interact with me but like to be rude. It’s like I’m their worst enemy and I did nothing to them . Even their daughters won’t talk to me or say hello. It’s soo evil of them. They think they’re Muslims when salam is for Allah and they won’t salem. They even want my parents divorced after 50 years of marriage. They are cruel. @Islamreligion
As for family, it’s mostly uncles and cousins. They just don’t like me or my family. They try their best to avoid me. They don’t interact with me but like to be rude. It’s like I’m their worst enemy and I did nothing to them . Even their daughters won’t talk to me or say hello. It’s soo evil of them. They think they’re Muslims when salam is for Allah and they won’t salem. They even want my parents divorced after 50 years of marriage. They are cruel. @Islamreligion