I Want My Wife to Cheat On Me

Like normal people, I used to get upset when a girlfriend would flirt with other people and whatnot, but that isn't the case anymore. In fact, I actually want my spouse to flirt and sleep with other men. I even want her to cheat on me, having a secret affair. I don't know if this is a defense mechanism or something, but yeah, I've come to be aroused by the thought of all this happening.

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Tejanajuana · 46-50, M

I never thought I'd get into this type of thing but eventually I did with my current girlfriend.

tacsman · 36-40, M

Did it work out well for you both?

Tejanajuana · 46-50, M

@groceryman: sometimes it does. It takes a little getting used to

Funopenrelationship · 36-40, M

@Tejanajuana: how did that come about?

Tejanajuana · 46-50, M

I'm not sure how we started talking about it but eventually it led to us talking about staying together AND sleeping with other people

Funopenrelationship · 36-40, M

@Tejanajuana: awesome. Was it mostly her idea? And do you both sleep with other people or just her?

Tejanajuana · 46-50, M

50 50 on the idea. We have a lot of communication between us. She's had (that I know of) four more guy partners while with me. I've only two guy partners no women while with her....