I don’t understand this group title. [I Love Women That Love Their Husband, But Still Cheat]

How can you love someone but still cheat? I mean, unless you are in an open marriage/relationship, I believe you should stay faithful to one person. That’s just me though. Of course mistakes happen though and I am not judging anyone. To each their own for sure. 🖤

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

SW-User

Cause they love themselves and sex more. They have no integrity

SW-User

@SW-User And who they cheat with are just as selfish

JollyRoger · 70-79, M

I disagree (although you are correct in the 'big picture' of life): The issue here is, "What is cheating?" There are reasons why a person would seek sex outside of their marriage. It's easy to say that such a person is a 'cheater'.... but unless you know the dynamic of the marriage, you should abstain from judging. And: The extra-marital 'lover' - being 'just as selfish."? - in some cases they are just friends who care and understand why the labelled 'cheater' is acting-out. Not everyone is a priest and not everyone is a psychologist - most people just 'cope' with their lot in life and stay married because they love (most of) the attributes of their mate. If the mate has faults and they are brought to the mate's attention and are ignored..... then who is at fault?