But you specifically said...

@anoderod55 oh? Just who is instructing you? Of course, you want to know all about what she's going to do, don't you?

@VeronicaJane One of the men on here . Very much so . As much as willing to share Some detail would be nice .

@anoderod55 so, is she interested?

@VeronicaJane I believe so . 😌

@anoderod55 does that mean you're encouraging her?

@VeronicaJane Yes , as much/often as possible 😌

@anoderod55 is she cooperating?

@VeronicaJane Not like i want 🤔 I hope to have a talk with her soon .🤞

@anoderod55 then the question may be, does she want to?

@VeronicaJane Pretty sure she is up for it . Believe she has a male friend now .

@anoderod55 but you haven't discussed it? Important to agree to boundaries and what is acceptable...

@VeronicaJane We have discussed somewhat . Need to talk more .

@anoderod55 does she seem interested from what you've discussed so far? It important to have agreement and set boundaries. Someone else thought this,She seemed non-committal. Only he got a phone call much later from a woman complaining that his wife was having an affair with the woman's husband. They worked together. It was a complete surprise to him. She decided that he was interested in that, just skipped the part about telling him....

@VeronicaJane That's interesting .

@anoderod55 no so much for him. His fantasy. She lived it, just didn't share with him, and refused after he found out.

@VeronicaJane Lot like mine right now .

@anoderod55 do you know that she is?

@VeronicaJane I'm pretty sure she had/has a male friend for awhile . From what she said . Not talking right now .

@anoderod55 a male friend, or a male "friend" as in FWB? Why don't you just pour her a couple glasses of wine and ask her some evening? How did she react, when you brought it up initially?