I Am Having Problems Dealing With His Ex-wife Or Ex-girlfriend

She wasn't even his gf but just a fwb and magically assumed she had been in a relationship with him when my bf and I announced we were together. Of course she called me names and claimed how much better she was then I. Always bombarded him with messages just going off for weeks... well now this chicka after her last messaging fiasco with my bf and he told her where to go and how to get there... all of a sudden the ministry called the next day in regards to his son they said someone had called accusing him of drinking 24 beers and neglecting the child and passing out on a regular basis. We can only assume it was that crazy chick trying to get back at him. This is a bit much ugh. I don't even know what to do about this nutcase.
Like move on and leave us alone.

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PoetryNEmotion · F

He could have told his fwb that he was entering into another relationship with someone first. End it before jumping into a new relationship. She sounds jealous. What were the terms of their relationship? He had her as a fwb so he should have ended it more in an adult manner without all the name-calling, etc. He should consider meeting with her and getting this all straightened out before it worsens. You should step back. He was involved with her before you and it is between the two of them. You are just adding fuel to the fire.

MaryjaneMinute · 31-35, F

@PoetryNEmotion thank you for your response. It tis more complicated then the simplified summery in my original post... you see my bf and I were together 5 yrs ago and actually have a child together. So i have been involved the whole time.
The fwb lives down the road from him and was aware that he did indeed want to get back together with me.
Thier relationship was more one of convenience.
(I actually live out of town)
Unfortunately she wasn't mature enough to handle a true fwb type relationship. She is a fair amount younger then I am and well... dramatic as hell.

Like it is okay for her to be hurt and I get that completelty she was hoping for thier relationship to be more...
but when she starts to try and ruin his life and it gets my child involved it drags me into it and it is taking all of me not to go all mama bear lash out at her.

Northwest · M

Ministry? What does that mean?

Why doesn't he block her? I'm pretty sure you can do that with any phone plans these days.

MaryjaneMinute · 31-35, F

@Northwest The ministry is social workers.

496sbc · 36-40, M

Wow. Thats not-good u can build up stress. U seem pissed

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