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I Want a Girlfriend

Why is it so freaking hard to get one? Seems like nobody could ever like me, let alone love me.
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fergiemeow
The issue is you are "trying to get a girlfriend". Instead you should be enjoying your friends, meeting new people, making connections, and then just maybe you will find yourself a girlfriend! Stop searching for it, it will come to you.
Gomega98 · 26-30, M
I don't have any friends -_-
fergiemeow
What grade are you in?
Gomega98 · 26-30, M
Idk, I live in the Netherlands and our education system is different from US system. It's a little less than 2 years before I'll go to university
fergiemeow
I'm only asking cause I was assuming high school? Senior year maybe? That was one of my worst years too. I felt like I had no friends (after my boyfriend dumped me) the friends I had were all his and the friends I use to have...well they were gone. My senior year of high school and no friends. I didn't go to prom that year, or any year actually. But I put myself out there and graduated high school with a few friends who helped me get through it. Once my boyfriend dumped me I had to talk to people in class I haven't before. Make small talk, compliment their clothes or something, sit by time in class until we realized we had things in common and then became friends.

And once I left high school, college is like a do over button. You will meet new people, you will find a girlfriend.

You are young, don't put to much pressure into and do not worry so much about high school, just get through it!
Gomega98 · 26-30, M
Wish it was that easy for me. I suck at making friends and all my classmates think I'm a weirdo/loser so I doubt that would work. Thanks for your kind words however
fergiemeow
I'm sorry they feel that way. If you want a friend from American I'm more than happy to be one!

I actually really suck a making friends too. That was the hard part. But once you make it to university you will meet some many more people.
Gomega98 · 26-30, M
Thanks, I appreciate that.

I hope I will get some friends when I go to university.
fergiemeow
Where are you looking at going to university?
Gomega98 · 26-30, M
Yes I am, I actually want to go to the University of Toronto after I finished high school
fergiemeow
Canada! We will be like neighbor then :)
Gomega98 · 26-30, M
Yeah :P