Making love to a disabled man

I have never had a girl in 35 years because of my disability, I long for real true love but I dont know how to attract a girl. I dont know what to say or do, I have no education in this and when other guys flirt with a girl it seems so easy like as if they was educated in love, but for me it is like I am blocked and paralysed.

Girls can read guys bodylanguage like a radar on a big ship. I dont think girls seems to be that much interested in disabled guys as they are in "perfect" guys.Girls...How do you make love to a disabled man and how do you send signs to a guy that you are interested in him and what do you see within him that make girls interested?

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DcupSophie · 31-35, F

I had sex with a friends dad after he was in a serious car crash and left disabled

Mathias · 56-60, M

@DcupSophie Ok

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DcupSophie · 31-35, F

@Mathias what I meant to say was I slept with him out of pity rather than attraction. Its hard because over time he became very attracted to me

DcupSophie · 31-35, F

@Richard65 out of sympathy

Richard65 · M

@DcupSophie okay, it's a nice gesture, but in the long run it might have frustrated him if it was just one time and he couldn't enjoy you again. Or, if he grew attracted to you. I know you did it for a good reason.

Mathias · 56-60, M

@DcupSophie then it was not true love if you did that. I want a girl for TRUE love not FAKE love.

DcupSophie · 31-35, F

@Richard65 it wasnt one time and yes he became attracted to me

Richard65 · M

@DcupSophie how did all that end?

Mathias · 56-60, M

@DcupSophie And did you got attracted to him?

DcupSophie · 31-35, F

@Mathias what Im trying to say as nicely as possible is if a woman is willingly to sleep with you, dont ask why, just be happy she is

DcupSophie · 31-35, F

@Mathias i wasnt at all attracted to him; well maybe a little

DcupSophie · 31-35, F

@Richard65 we still see each other but very infrequently

Mathias · 56-60, M

@DcupSophie I will be more than happy if she wanna sleep with me but if she does it just for faking love as many girls seems to do, then its not ok.

Mathias · 56-60, M

@DcupSophie How much is a little?

DcupSophie · 31-35, F

@Mathias depends on the extent of the disability, he is basically a quadrapligic

There is also a big age gap between us

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DcupSophie · 31-35, F

@Mathias almost 30 year age gap

DcupSophie · 31-35, F

@Mathias i think almost any woman would at least be thinking that in that situation

Mathias · 56-60, M

@DcupSophie I have heard that if the age gap is more than ten years its way too much. Whether this is true or just a sayin would be interesting to know. I have also heard from some younger girls, I am 56 myself; that age is just a number and not that important as they think.