Making love to a disabled man

@StygianKohlrabi No I dont...tell me.

@Mathias you need to have confidence. that is the key to their hearts.

@StygianKohlrabi How do girls notice I have that?

@Mathias once you open your mouth it should become quickly apparent

@StygianKohlrabi My manly voice should be enough confidence.

@Mathias hmm maybe, maybe. don't they tell you why? you see women don't mind rejecting men they deem unworthy. that's life but usually they give some kind of feedback. maybe they just think you're "boring." whatever the case I am almost certain there are 1 or 2 who will take you as you are.

@StygianKohlrabi I have never heard anything about that, just humiliating words like...are you drunked, you´re talking blurry and things like that. So what...It has with my disability to do and I can´t help it. I was born this way and no one asked me how I wanted to be borned.

@Mathias it sounds like you are pushing yourself into high stakes situations, like in a bar or something. you will see a nasty side to people. I am guessing you have tried all manner of speech therapy already. aim for low stakes situations and making connections first. try to explain your speech difficulties if they act confused. I am actually jealous of your deep voice, as you put it. if people insult you just move on from them right away. maybe laugh at them.

@StygianKohlrabi When people humiliating me for my disability then they show me how unpolite and uninterested they are. My disability is really embarrassing, I have been bullied too for this. It took 35 years to find this but before they found it my life was even worser. Even the security guards and police have humiliated me for being drunked. I have told people uncountable times that my disability afffects my balance, my fine motor skills and my speech but noone listen. And when I try to leave they stop me to leave. This is very embarrasing to live with and I think this is the reason I never can get a girl that loves me for who I am. I can never change how I was born. I dont think you really understand how I feel.

@Mathias ah OK yeah that I can understand. the police and security are bullies who prey on the weak. you need to fight back even if by just turning away from them.

@StygianKohlrabi But then you get caught for leaving.

@Mathias not if you're quick enough

@StygianKohlrabi Sadly I am not.

@Mathias and people still complain about incels. SMH.

@StygianKohlrabi Whats incels SMH?

@Mathias involuntarily celibate

@StygianKohlrabi People have nothing better to do than complain.