I really hate the fact that my spouse has totally cut of our sex life..

I would offer some thoughts, but I think you may be past the point of wanting to try and make it better with your wife. I'm sorry. 😔 The way this is looking is going to be sad for both of you. 😔 I don't mean to offend you, in any way. I have been married for 45 years, and lately it has been a struggle for me to find as much desire as I used to have. I know this is hard for my Husband too. 😔 We are still trying to make it better, though. Marriage isn't easy. That's for sure.