I wish people married someone they actually like that way

they won’t be a Sluutty person and have online flings. Like and want to do the wild thing with your husband/wife that way .

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AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

I've talked to a lot of married guys on here. Most say things turned sour aka sexless, so they seek fun and attention here.

One part of me gets it. Why they're trying to stick together for their kids and family but must be dying from lack of affection.

But the part of me that had the courage to get divorced and seek something meaningful at my age, is bored with these guys and how they hate women.

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AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

@Montanaman I'm always up for honesty. As long as it's not an opinion telling me or shaming me for my feelings.

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AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

@Montanaman I don't owe you a response. I didn't death blow you. You should be confident enough in your own truth to not need a response geez

Montanaman · M

@AlchemyFox 'sorry. I just felt vulnerable at that particular moment.

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

@Montanaman well roll with it. Being vulnerable is okay. I posted pictures of my weird body and idgaf if people think I'm disgusting. You gotta be you.

Montanaman · M

@AlchemyFox True that 🤗

SW-User

@AlchemyFox I can understand a marriage can turn sour and sexless. Having kids with a person makes it even harder to leave. If they want sex that badly I think it’s best they get divorced and try to find a partner that can satisfy their sexual needs instead of cheating which not only includes that act of sex but sexting, emotional and nudes.

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

@SW-User that's exactly what I did 🙂 and it's been much better. Not easier, but better.

SW-User

@AlchemyFox brave woman and yes it is probably for the best. No one will be happy in a marriage filled with dishonestly and neglect.