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It’s terrible to marry someone unless you know them well.

I had a nightmare marriage filled with hate and insanity from him. I never had a true relationship.
Fairydust · F
Same, I thought I knew him, we married after 5 years, I had no doubts, thought he was a wonderful man 🙄 lol
SW-User
I’m sorry but you’re not the only one. It’s just sad how we get tricked into marrying terrible people. 😢 @Fairydust
Fairydust · F
@SW-User

I know, very sad, hope you’re ok now. 🥰
SW-User
Thanks, I’m fine ☀️🤞@Fairydust
SW-User
I wonder if you can ever know someone well enough to marry them because it seems like they don’t show their true colors until after 😕

I’ll just not get married again 😆

I’m sorry you went through that but I’m glad you’re free of it. Some people stay until they’re ruined. You’re lovely and I think in time someone with good intentions will see that 🖤
SW-User
@SW-User Thanks, you’re lovely as well.
I think it is difficult knowing someone before marriage because they can pretend to be kind and love you then bam after marriage they turn into vile bastards. Women can do the same as well. It’s just a scary world we live in. I rather not get married again either. It’s not worth the risk.

I hope you find the right person in the future. I’m sure you are a catch for men and only a good man deserves you. Always do what is right for you. 👍🏼🍀🌈
SW-User
@SW-User I never understood what the benefit to marriage was once I did it. Just seems like they’re on their best behavior but what’s the goal? To capture and keep someone? Errr 😆

Thank you for saying that. I believe but also pretty happy without for the most part. Relationships tend to be one sided these days and I don’t have the strength to do all the work. Plus with a kiddo, nobody wants us. Even though he’s a great kid! Society has something against single moms. Fuck em cuz we’re doing great 🖤
SW-User
True, it’s hard trying to make the relationship work when the guy is acting like a prick. It must even be harder for a single mom to find a decent step dad for her kid. It’s best to do what keeps you feeling safe. Good luck in what ever comes your way. 🤞🤞🍀🍀@SW-User
Barny52 · 56-60, M
Hopefully things will get better, I didn’t find the right woman till i was 40 , first time married wasn’t good but second as been wonderful
SW-User
I’m happy for you. Some people never find the right one. @Barny52
Jackson711247 · 36-40, M
Yes its sad when you marry someone and you think you know them but as time goes on you realize its not what you thought you wanted or was getting.

 
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