Do you think the person who gives you your first orgasm determines your sexual choices?

that would be me... so i guess i can blame only myself. 🤭

There is something called your Arousal Template, that is created in your mind during your first sexual encounter(s) or orgasm(s). Because it’s your first sexual experience, your body and mind remembers key elements like the age of your partner (if not solo), the type and spot of stimulation, the result (cum, squirt) and even details like the lighting, music and sounds, scents and circumstances (playful, scary, funny). Any or all of those “elements” can form your Arousal Template, and going forward, that’s what determines what you need to orgasms or be satisfied. Sometimes, if the initial experience was unusual, a person could deny or fight it, suppress it and have problems achieving satisfaction.

Of course not. My first was done to me by another woman and I’m straight as an arrow.

I don't think so. That's just my honest opinion

Not at all ...our choices can change as we do

I didn't realize at the time, I knew nothing about sex. But much later in life, I have discovered the affect men have on me now. Maybe that innocent fun I had with my friend at the age of fourteen was a sign.

Very possibly but it's also possible that your already existing if unconscious sexual choices determine who you choose to have it with. I think sexual feelings go right back to childhood.

Nope

No.

No, I don't ...it was a young lady who gave me my first orgasm, but a few years later I started having sex with other men and I now identify as homosexual.