So Long Ago

About 10 years ago I was involved in a sexless relationship site on something called the experience project. I contributed a lot to that group. I had many friends there. Then lost touch and finally think it stopped being in existence. It is sad that nothing and I mean nothing has changed in my life since that group. Time has changed and life has slowly passed me. I am older and wiser but not wise enough. Because I am still in the same situation. I needed to leave but have not done so.

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JohnUS · 56-60, M

Yea I agree. Is it better here now? The group does not seem that active. Back then during the EP, I was a mess. I just did not know what to do. Now I am still really not that much different, but handle things differently. Honestly, I did actually meet someone from that group. I drove to Buffalo NY. Got there and felt so guilty I came back home. Those days were just sad.

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NewRaven · 51-55, F

@swirlie oh, wow, I didn’t realize that was what caused the site’s demise. The articles I saw all pointed to trafficking. I met my now best friend on that site, and we’ve met in person quite a few times over the years.

NewRaven · 51-55, F

@JohnUS I miss all the connections I made on EP back at the time. The group collectively served as group therapy during a very rough time in my life. Ended up divorced, but I got thru much of the drama mostly unscathed due to the online friends I had made there. I was in the sexless marriage group you speak of, but am in a much better place now. I don’t recall if we chatted or not.

JohnUS · 56-60, M

@NewRaven that is great to hear. I never divorced but have the same problems. I posted under the name King of Pain on EP. I am happy that you were able to move forward.

WastedShadedDaylight · 41-45, F

I think I remember you. I was on EP then.
I met so many amazing people. My marriage failed and I ended up with someone off EP. Xxx

islanderPEI · 56-60, M

I remember that group. Good group. I am still in a sexless marriage, but it has evolved. Back then I was frustrated. Now I am happy - we enjoy lots of non-sexual intimacy and to be honest my sex drive has lowered somewhat and my capability to perform has lowered a lot. My wife now identifies as an asexual.

Aristotle · 51-55

EP was a very active SM community. I found a ton of support there at the very beginning of my SM.

FWIW, quite a few of the members headed over to [removed by staff]. That sexless marriage community is still active although it ebbs and flows. You might be interested in the discussions there.

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WakingUpInTexas · 46-50, M

same. EP ILIASM

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JohnUS · 56-60, M

@swirlie That I am sure was so very helpful. I wrote there a lot under the name King of Pain. I was very involved but it started to begin to be used for dating and getting together. So very tempting when you feel rejection in that way. So I started to feel as if, I was really not sorting out anything and that I was kind of just go in circles. That was when I took a break.

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