The guy I like says he can't commit to me I love this guy a lot, truly, and I know he loves me,...

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The guy I like says he can't commit to me

I love this guy a lot, truly, and I know he loves me, I really don't want to lose him, and he says he doesn't want to lose me either... I don't know what to do, what do I say? Is there something I should tell him to help him? Should I do nothing?...

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McBoobFace24 · 31-35, MNew

I never took on the challenge of keeping someone around sounds like too much work

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Tsuki · 16-17, F

@helenoftroy2000 huh...

BabyLonia · F

You deserve someone who thinks you are the world.

Tsuki · 16-17, F

@BabyLonia people like that are quite rare nowadays..

BabyLonia · F

@Tsuki
"we accept the love we think we deserve"

gregloa · 61-69, M

He’s probably married

DangerGirl · 22-25, F

How old is he, and what are his reasons?

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Tsuki · 16-17, F

@DangerGirl I don't need him to commit his future to me, just to be with me, plus, if he never gets over the commitment issues, how will he ever settle down? Even if it's not with me, with someone else

DangerGirl · 22-25, F

@Tsuki Men are slower to mature. It's like expecting a twelve year old girl to commit herself to a guy.

Tsuki · 16-17, F

@DangerGirl not all men? I've meet guys who are much more mature then that, and he is himself a mature person

GoFish ·

sounds fishy maybe he has other love interest but something is off for sure

Tsuki · 16-17, F

@GoFish all of his close friends say he hasn't ever had a gf, even the friend who knew him since he was 8 agrees so I bought he's a player

GoFish ·

@Tsuki oh

OlderSometimesWiser · F

No shame but please move on. You’re wasting valuable time. If a person wants to be with you, they’ll find a way to be with you. This guy ain’t that person. Want more for yourself and close this chapter of your life.

Tsuki · 16-17, F

@OlderSometimesWiser I don't know honestly...

OlderSometimesWiser · F

@Tsuki Yes, I think you do know. Sometimes it’s just too painful to admit the truth to ourselves. You deserve better and that’s what you really need to believe.

Adrift · 61-69, F

He is a time waster.
I would say you snooze, you loose.
Next batter up!

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

Online relationships are not real.

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MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

@DangerGirl Lying isn’t polite either.

Px4545 · 31-35, M

@MrBrownstone why she would lie?

JupiterDreams · 31-35

@MrBrownstone I dunno, I met my boyfriend (now husband) through a dating app, we did long distance (different countries) until I moved to be with him

So, they can be real

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