I have some advice

See a woman can't change a man because she loves him. But the man changes himself because he loves her.

So ladies, don't going to try and change him, he'll do it on his own if he truely loves you and its not going to happen overnight either.

Its kinda like waves on the beach beating the big rocks. Little pieces at time fall off and become sand.

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BrandNewMan · M

Let's get real for a second ..

What makes the woman perfect that the man has to do all the changing for her? She owes this to him every bit as much as him to her.

A healthy relationship should involve two people growing, supporting the relationship, making the adjustments needed to keep things working for both. I don't see that in these statements, though it may be intended. One sided relationships are not fulfilling and are far more prone to failure. It takes two.

Happy spouse happy house should replace happy wife happy life as the "marriage mantra".

I said what I said.