Pop gave me good advice about a number of things, but one thing I will always remember from my mother…

What she told me about relationships was pretty simple:If you’re not really interested in the guy, don’t waste his time. She said, "People can forgive almost anything except feeling like you’ve made a fool of them."

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AnotherUniverse · 41-45, M Best Comment

That’s powerful wisdom—simple, but it cuts deep. Your mom’s advice gets at something fundamental: respect. Being honest about your intentions isn’t just about saving someone else from heartache; it’s about showing them the dignity they deserve. And it’s true—few things sting more than realizing your trust or feelings were toyed with. We owe each other sincerity, especially in something as personal as love.