I need advice

How do I break up with a girl that I’ve been seeing and in a relationship with for 9 months

Over the course of the relationship I always knew in the long run it won’t last because of different religions and values.

I started to compromise my religion and be a part of hers and I am not happy anymore

Like I says she’s a really good girl and respects me and is there for me in every way!

How do I let her go? Its hard

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Maturebate · 70-79, M

You are putting your religious convictions as more important than your feelings for this girl, right from the start. So she had no chance! Be honest and tell her.

YoungAmerican · 18-21, F

Well for starters you can stop wasting her time, since you know it’s never gonna last. Be honest with her and cut it off immediately. Dragging it out just because you like certain aspects of her character doesn’t mean it’ll ever change or be at the level you want it to be. Sit her down, or do whatever you’re comfortable with, just do it respectfully and cut off all formal contact afterwards.

thinkingoutloud · F

You'll be doing her a favour by letting her go, based on the details you have provided here. The problem seems to be with you not knowing yourself and your values and you are just stringing her along.
Surely she deserves better.

IndophileIndian · 31-35, M

First, you have to find yourself. Since you said you're religious, look deep within yourself. Then talk to her; if you can find peace with this relationship, let her stay. Otherwise, let her go.

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