I Need Dating Advice

so, what does it take for a player to settle down? they need to meet someone who can keep a lot of drama and games going for a long time, or else they get bored. I "dated" a guy for one month before breaking it off. the kissing and making out was fun, but I got bored.

I think the only type of person who could keep a player interested long term is another player. but then it would be a competition to see who would win the game instead of a real relationship.

I think a player deep down needs to want to change themselves and settle down.

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michelle85 · 31-35, F

If you never want to mature to a regular relationship... a few thoughts. It’s about the chase. So never allow the chase to die. Maybe try a relationship where the illusion is to always keep it on the down low. I would think that you have an insatiable appetite for continuous attention. Not that this is bad. But the only one who can keep you would have to give you attention every waking hour outside of work. Find a “good bad boy” don’t plan to marry for 5-10 years . See if he has the endurance for you.

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michelle85 · 31-35, F

It’s about being natural to who you are... being true to you.. why force settling down? Either he gives you everything you want to the point you want for nothing more, or he lacks what you want and need... only thing you need to be careful of is wanting things to perfect and ending up alone. Being a player is fun and has its advantages. But there are some pitfalls. As most would know.

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