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I Need Dating Advice

Tinder Date
I’ve been talking to this guy, Michael. We clicked instantly, he thought I was funny and cute so we exchanged numbers to continue talking. By the third day, we’d spoken on the phone, and he (jokingly?) mentioned moving with me when I leave the state in August. But I don't think he was kidding. At first, I wasn't looking for anything serious. I just wanted to experiment and stay single. But within a week of talking to him, I deleted Tinder and stopped talking to other people. It came out of nowhere, and I knew I wanted him in my life. It's only been two weeks and I already really really like him. He's busy a lot of the time, working mostly. I find myself thinking ”I hope he's having a good day at work” and stuff like that a lot. For the past week, he's called me after work every day. It's so cute, he really likes talking to me I guess. 😊 I really like talking to him, too. But I’m moving in five months. I don't know if he was serious or not. How do I ask something like that? Should I wait until the month before I move, or should I just ask in a month or so after he asks me out? If he asks me out... I think he will. He says he really likes me. Also, he doesn't flirt with me as much as I flirt with him. Sometimes it makes me question whether he really likes me as much as he is saying he does. Maybe he's just awkward about that stuff or not used to the compliments so he doesn't flirt back as much as I wish he would... I don't know how to bring that up either.
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SW-User
If I were you, I would begin taking it nice and slow. You don't want to get hurt. You should just nonchalantly ask him if he is serious about moving with you. Plus, you hardly know each other and it's best for you to make sure he is legit.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SW-User I guess I will try that. I do want to know. Even though I don’t think that moving in that soon is a good idea especially out of state.
SW-User
@flowerboy just be very careful. I don't think it's a good idea at this phase of your getting to know one another. Our your tinder back up, explore other options.
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SW-User We both already established that we’re not talking to anyone else so I kinda can't but I also don't want to. I really just want to focus on one person. I only have time for one anyway
SW-User
@flowerboy all I want to say is just be careful with your heart. Make sure he has good intentions. Good luck to you my friend!🤗
flowerboy · 22-25, T
@SW-User I will, trust me. I'm terrified of getting broken again. Thank you for your advice ❤️
SW-User
@flowerboy my pleasure. You always have a friend here.☺