I Need Advice On Relationships

It will be 10 years in September that we have dated but lately I feel like I dating a stranger. We talk just the minimum . I miss how we used to be baking cookies,going on walks and bike rides doing fun things. Now it feels like we rarely go out. Sometimes I get the feeling your embarrassed of me.. today on mothers day I understood we are broke but you could of made the effort to make me feel special. Maybe offer to wash the dishes, make breakfast or even just be nice to me. It's like you dont care for holidays. When was the last holiday you made me feel special ? And it doesn't even have to cost you a thing a picnic at the park something nice. I feel like lately we are strangers to each other. I need us to get back to how we use to be. We need to invest in us not as a family but you and me if this is going to work you and I need to work on the foundation which is us if it's not stable enough how is this family going to work. I need to know if you are willing to work on us or if te vale. I want us to be a happy family but I dont want to force you to b a way you dont want to be . I've spent 9 years of my life with you and we have 2 beautiful kids together I think this is worth fighting for don't you?