Ever make a friend who when you really are going through something tragic seems so vapid?

They have not done anything particularly horrible,they are much the same as they ever were.
But, you changed and their talk about fashion, celebs, and nothing of substance begins to hit you differently and you realize you wouldn't probably make such a friend again.

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Mellowgirl · 31-35, F

Ummm... I don't really have friends like this any more.

People like that died out long ago for me.

Unfortunately though I do have one friend that waffles with too much information about things.

Topics: She's fertility obsessed (45 and wants a child) narcissist obsessed, any kind of men issues while dating becomes a marathon conversation, any one in a crisis she's all over it

I think when things are really bad she tries to keep me on the phone for 2 hours but most recently I've been making excuses to end calls after 15 mins.

I even went as long as not talking to her for 2 weeks for breathing space.

She's kind, caring and unfortunately lonely.