My ideal partner

* male around my age 10 years difference either way (divorced, but not bitter) or never married, but that’s rare or widowed (but healed)
*decent shape, no beer belly
* drinks about the same amount as I do which once or twice a week
* loves to listen to music and searches for new music, doesn’t stick with the same old same old
* doesn’t really care about sports, can turn them off whenever
* open minded politically
* open minded spiritually
* likes to go in hot tubs
* doesn’t mind working in the yard
* likes to text (good at the fun part of it, not gross)
* funny
* likes kids, all kids not just their own, if they have any
* dresses nicely
* Does things he says he’s going to do
* doesn’t try to “little woman” me or expect me to do things because I’m a woman
* likes to take walks
* will consider going out dancing