breakups suck

i’m devastated the guy i thought was gonna marry is gone, we loved each other so much but i know he’s not the one im supposed to be with forever. Even though i know this is true, i loved him so so much, and now im alone and had to move back home. I feel so alone and like i just wasted the last almost 3 years of my life. maybe he will come back… or maybe i’ll hopefully find the right one for me. i hope sooner rather then later, i don’t do well alone. and i have litterally 0 friends :(

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DomMan67 · 56-60, M

I'm sorry you are going through a painful breakup. Breakups are never easy. They always hurt and often leave permanent scars on us emotionally. This isn't going to be what you want to hear now but I can assure you that you are far better off finding out that he is not the right one for you after a few years than had it gone on longer and you find out after 10 or 20 or 30 years.

It sounds impossible now but there will be a time you look back at this and are thankful it happened because it lead to something much better for you that wouldn't have happened if you had remained with him.