Recovering now, though [I Went Through A Break Up That Changed My Life]

Break ups can be hell, like war. However, mine was three years ago and things get better, the world revolves and the sun comes out again. Each dawn brings new opportunities if one seeks them and recognises what one sees.

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pelman0011 · 56-60, M Best Comment

Only human nature to be bitter; nothing wrong with that.

We think of it as "wasted time", and ask ourselves; "Is the hurt worth it?"

Well, as I said in another post if we don't experience hurt, how are we to appreciate gratification, like what we get in a relationship that works out?

Breakups are very rough, but they're supposed to be.

But you're right, every day things get a little better, and you have to look at that as one day closer to being really happy in a relationship that will give you happiness.

Mindful · 56-60, F

So true, and glad you’ve come around. I’ve had my heart broken. unfortunately, I’ve broken a couple of hearts myself. Either side it’s painful. Now I’m with a much healthier person. post break up it’s hard to believe someone amazing will eventually step in to your life. Hang in there.

OnlyRhonda · 36-40, F

@Mindful thank you. I've found out a lot about myself - including that I was an arrogant, self centred, selfish little madam and not as perfect as I thought I was!

Mindful · 56-60, F

You’re lucky to be able to recognize that. Some people live in blindness @OnlyRhonda

OnlyRhonda · 36-40, F

@Mindful It was not an easy thing to recognise! Anyway, many - most - of my troubles were my own fault. Knowing that, I should not repeat them.

pelman0011 · 56-60, M

So true...and good for you!

OnlyRhonda · 36-40, F

@pelman0011 It's been a hard road and I was bitter for most of it.

TheOrionbeltseeker · 36-40, M

I totally agree with you

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