I Remember My First Painful Breakup [Painful Breakups]

He wasn't my first break up but it was painful. so I was 22 at the time and I dated this guy who had border line personality disorder and I thought at the time i was in love with him but i wasn't i was more infatuated really we dated off and on but the first time we broke up I got depressed and wanted to self harm because now i look back i got way too attached too soon. after that i dated this other guy who had an anxiety disorder and it was ok at first but things went down hill quick and during the summer we broke up for the better i realize now that my relationships were all toxic and i can finally say that i am in a healthy relationship with no red flags and we are complete opposites i am an extravert and he is a introvert i never been happy so from my experience there is a rainbow after the storm thank you for listening to my story😇