I Went Through A Break Up That Changed My Life [Painful Breakups]

i dated someone who had border line personality disorder and it changed my life we were off and on i was 22 and he was 19 . i am 23 years old now and I felt after we broke up for good i was never the same i am more careful about who i date now I never been in a healthy relationship till now and i never been happier he is 20 turning 21 this March we been dating since July my ex no longer goes to my college and i cut contact with him in May and i been happier ever since my current boyfriend gives me the Stability i Deserve he is amazing and i feel so blessed to have my boyfriend in my life.