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Is the buildup the best part of intimacy? I think it is!

Even if something is still thrilling the hundredth or thousandth time you experience it, it will never be as breathtaking as the first time. If you rush through the early stages, or even skip some entirely, you permanently miss out on a lot of excitement.

For example: it will always be arousing to see someone in their underwear, but if they already showed themselves fully naked before, you'll never wonder what's beneath and if they'll ever reveal more to you. Getting full nudes eventually is nice, but not required to have fun and getting them right off the bat may lead to regret about missed steps in the end.

Building it up very slowly from flirtation to fully clothed photos and suggestions of various states of undressing I may or may not see one day is much more interesting than a public nude out of the blue. And if it starts out promising but leads nowhere, that's fine too. The fun up to that point isn't lost then. And that approach isn't only more stirring, it's also safer. Win-win!

If any woman is curious about maybe showing herself to a one-man audience online, feel free to contact me and we can ease into it very slowly and see how far it does or doesn't go. I'm happy to return the favor under the same conditions too if you'd like, or keep my body hidden if you prefer to keep it one-sided. If you are interesting but don't know how to build it up slow, feel free to ask. I have plenty of ideas for a huge spectrum.
scorpiolovedeep · 46-50, M
What you refer here is sexual intimacy.


Intimacy is a much bigger thing than seducing someone or getting seduced and incorporates other aspects of a relationship , not just the touch and the looks etc
@scorpiolovedeep I didn't want to make this post too long, and think it's already on the long side anyway, so I went with just one example. But you're right: there's much more to it.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
Its the chase, the thrill, the anticipation. Everything that leads up to the finally coming together..like an orchestra reaching the crescendo..just breathtaking.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@NerdyPotato yes it is.
Crazywaterspring · 61-69, M
@Primnproper For us that is the best part.
Primnproper · 56-60, F
@Crazywaterspring i realised that a long time ago..that is attractive to us but for us I'd say its connection, emotions..
come2gether · 46-50, M
Now, Mr Nerdy. I do have to point out that you, yourself, have posted asking for nudes. If this post is a mea culpa, or an ask for forgiveness; that was not made apparent. Just saying.
@come2gether yeah, I wasn't expecting anything from that post, as it also clearly stated. That was more of a joke than anything else.
@come2gether and it's also not like nudes aren't interesting at all. They are very exciting, but building towards them is even better.
come2gether · 46-50, M
@NerdyPotato there is that, I will not deny

 
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