Do married men typically think of their wife when they masturbate?

@Richard65 That's such an exciting thing for so many men, it's amazing...

@helenS yes, it's more common than I originally thought. A lot of guys have a thing about watching their wives with another guy. Strangely, the ones who've chatted to me said they like thinking about it but would hate it to happen for real. They just like the fantasy.

@Richard65 Yes some dreams should never materialize; they may turn out to be nightmares in real life...
I know of exactly one "cuckold" couple, and they are the happiest married couple I've ever seen...

@helenS I can see how it might be exciting to do that, but I'd never want my wife or partner to actually have sex with another guy. It's a strange psychological quirk. You fantasise about it, but you'd hate it to happen in reality.

@Richard65 It appears to work, for some couples...