Got married when I least expected it to happen...
I had already been through 2 marriages. I cared about the individuals, and still do in it's own weird way. Things just didn't work out with them; it felt like something was missing in both of them. I consider myself fortunate being that even though I divorced twice, they were both finalized outside of the court system.
What is even more crazy is that I have remained friends with my second partner in my life. I truly think that the stress of her wanting a child and I didn't caused the breakdown of the marriage.
After the sale of the house which was difficult for me because it was a dream home and had everything I wanted in it, but I knew that I would have been miserable if I had stayed. We both would have been miserable.
What's crazy is that I met someone when I least expected it. I was only at my 1 bedroom apartment 1 week. My belongings were literally still in boxes. I received a message asking to go on a date. I was like ok, I will just go and have some fun. Two weeks later, she calls me and said she wanted to go on another date. After that I never left her apartment. Most of my belongings were literally still in boxes and remained that way for about 6 months. Three months later we found ourselves married.
Yup married. We've been married a few years now, and I have never been so happy. We don't argue; sure we have differences in options in some areas, but we respect one another on a whole other level that I have never experienced before. Two people can be different and still love one another. You just have to be willing to do your part in the relationship.
What is even more crazy is that I have remained friends with my second partner in my life. I truly think that the stress of her wanting a child and I didn't caused the breakdown of the marriage.
After the sale of the house which was difficult for me because it was a dream home and had everything I wanted in it, but I knew that I would have been miserable if I had stayed. We both would have been miserable.
What's crazy is that I met someone when I least expected it. I was only at my 1 bedroom apartment 1 week. My belongings were literally still in boxes. I received a message asking to go on a date. I was like ok, I will just go and have some fun. Two weeks later, she calls me and said she wanted to go on another date. After that I never left her apartment. Most of my belongings were literally still in boxes and remained that way for about 6 months. Three months later we found ourselves married.
Yup married. We've been married a few years now, and I have never been so happy. We don't argue; sure we have differences in options in some areas, but we respect one another on a whole other level that I have never experienced before. Two people can be different and still love one another. You just have to be willing to do your part in the relationship.
51-55, F
