Should men with girl friends or married talk to other girls?

( vise versa women who are taken talking to men)

It feels strange when taken men talk to me. Is it wrong to feel uncomfortable? I dont want to be rude and stop being friends with them.

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BlueVeins · 22-25

It's absolutely fine for hetero folks to talk to people of the opposite gender when they're taken, or have friends with people of the opposite gender for that matter. I can understand it being slightly uncomfortable since you have to be kinda aware of that platonic barrier you can't cross, but that's really it. And of course, you can always pull away if you're not comfortable; you don't necessarily even owe them an explanation.

SweetSkulls · 26-30, F

@BlueVeins the thing was I had a slight sexual picture asking "am I pretty" and he slides in. I mean, maybe its because we have similar interest but..erm..

BlueVeins · 22-25

@SweetSkulls Yeah, that's getting a bit close to the line.