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What do you do when your boyfriend tries to dodge child support

I have an issue with my boyfriend trying to dodge child support.... I don’t know how to convince him that he should .... what should I say or do? I told him that if we plan to marry he should get that taken care if it I’m leaving
jim44444 · 70-79, M
Your post is difficult to interpret so take the responses with a grain of salt.
If your BF is dodging child support for his kid then dump him now. If he cannot love his child then he cannot love himself and will never be able to truly love you. He is social scum.
NeuroticByNature · 41-45, F
I assume the child support is not for your children.
MrsCurious · 26-30, F
Yes we don’t have any he has 2 and so do I Neuroticnelly]
SW-User
Uh..
isn’t he legally required to?
if a man doesn't already have a conscious about this you cannot make him grow one. Reason why i'm upfront about the fact that we'd either use protection or i'd get a vasetomy- I don't want to sire children and I don't want the guilt.
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eMortal · M
@pagandad Dude, that's a fucked up comment!
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@pagandad her wording is not the best. Yet most here I believe have figured out that it's not her kid. Just saying.
MrsCurious · 26-30, F
First of all .... we don’t have any kids together. Don’t you feel so smart @pagandad
my poor little nieces daddy left the country to avoid paying for her...

It would be easy to not to give a shit about knocking somebody up if It hadn't had a devastating impact on all of us.

I couldn't put yet another family through that... but you cannot make somebody care if they don't.
Thats a weird question to ask - If I was your BF - I would go buy a new pair of running shoes and wear them out !
MrsCurious · 26-30, F
I would wear them with pride @MarmeeMarch
@MrsCurious The shoes would be for me !!!
MrsCurious · 26-30, F
Not if I buy them lol @MarmeeMarch
purplepen · 51-55, F
I refused to have kids while married, because we wouldn't have been able to provide a stable enough home for them.

If the kids exist already, that makes it harder.
NativeOregonian · 51-55
Since he has to this point to take care of it he never will, he is a deadbeat, you deserve better.
xixgun · M
Contact the court and the police
If he’s dodging his child support he’s a lowlife. The only thing more ill-advised than being involved is [b]staying[/b] involved, because ending up pregnant just gives him [b]another[/b] child to neglect.
Human1000 · M
Sue his ass. Don’t marry this loser dead beat piece of shit.

 
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