Do u regret marrying or being with someone older?

So I'm 26 in Nov and I like a guy 11 years older than me I know its not so bad but my mum always moans when I say I like older men...I'm very emotional mature and I like men that have Also matured emotional and spiritually but she says no dont go for such a old man cos he won't have the energy to keep up with u and also he will be boring and old etc dunno if its true...I've never been with a guy in my age range 26-30 always older....

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firefall · 61-69, M Best Comment

that's all about noise that's in your mothers head, her secret fears and regrets for herself most likely. Don't let it influence you.

SW-User

@firefall The wording about energy is not noise even if some she expresses may be about fears and things

SW-User

He likely can keep up with you now. It will be down the road when say you are 40 he will be 51, when you are 60 he would be 71 those are the times where it could become to matter

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Kiwi2 · 31-35, F

@SW-User yea thats he worry she says u dony want him to be tired and grumpy and tie u down when u still have energy ....but some men really have the energy when they older

Kiwi2 · 31-35, F

@SW-User true I understand but we have both reached that life were we want to settle down and start a family and I know I'm young but I can't party anymore just don't enjoy it

SW-User

@Kiwi2 I'm not trying to dissuade you, and it can happen just there will be differences along the way

YourMomsSecretCrush · M

Youre old enough to decide who you want to date.

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