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I Am Married

I have been with my husband over 20 yrs. When we started dating, life was simpler and sweeter. No Tinder, no bumble. No sexting. I truly think we were lucky to miss out on that. He picked me up with flowers in hand and opened the car door for me and kissed me on the cheek good night. All this before knowing every last detail of the other person because of a lengthy text session.

Still.. I am curious about the online hunt.. wishing I could just swipe right or left out of curiousity.
FoolishLuna · 56-60, F
Well I have been single for two years. Trust me the swiping thing gets exhausting. Give me life before the internet ...
I have had some great experiences on Tinder. No regrets. And the guy I am with was on Tinder and we still giggle on how we met.
Cowboybob · M
Many people indulge the curiosity. Just be careful!
Trayale · 46-50, F
@Cowboybob This is good advice.. lol
purplepen · 51-55, F
Oh you don't need to do any hunting! It's overrated and it quickly gets boring and stupid, especially if you already have someone!
Cowboybob · M
[@you should experiment on SW
Trayale · 46-50, F
@Cowboybob Hmmmm
melbeacher · 61-69, M
@Trayale but fun none the less
genericuser · 31-35, M
It never hurts to be a little curious. And in this instance it would be easy to indulge the curiosity without letting it get out of hand. Is the online hunt something you really want to pursue? It should at least be worth a laugh.
Ghauzy · 51-55, M
I’ve been married for nearly 20 as well. I swipe for the most difficult reason: looking for a friend. I’m amazed on how many profiles say practically the same thing. They must be using a template.
SW-User
Understood.
God bless you for your marriage and staying married... and yes.. things were simpler.
canlem · 70-79
Curiosity is the adventure of a lifetime, maybe time to broaden your horizons !🤒
melbeacher · 61-69, M
I hear you. Technology can be both a blessing and a curse!
Serendipitymaybe · 51-55, M
I totally get it. I’m married too. I’m craving another affair.
SW-User
The unknown feeling before a datethr first date butterflies. The arranging to meet at a certain time and place,without constantly monitoring time and texting..A simpler happier time to live
in10RjFox · M
Those monogamy days are over. It's liberation from such thoughts even. Conventions have changed.
Trayale · 46-50, F
@in10RjFox Monogamy isn't possible anymore?
in10RjFox · M
@Trayale yes. In fact it has been used as a tool to deceive for long. Just used for sexual exclusivity for which marriage was used as a medium. If we review we can know it's a inhuman concept which is against wishes of nature.
in10RjFox · M
@Trayale more over what is a promise at the beginning, for the result of it emerge later.
Yeah. Well chivalry is dead. What’s bumble? I’ve never heard of that one before.
Trayale · 46-50, F
@MsAnnThropy Maybe its just in Canada? My friends use the app for dating
@Trayale Maybe.
swl2jo · 56-60, M
are there any things you'd look for in a dating partner that your hubby doesn't give you?
melbeacher · 61-69, M
I hear you. Times have changed. I think technology has allowed us to be able to be curious and anonymous
awww that is the sweetest honest thing to say!
Rippie · 31-35, M
Times have definitely changed
SW-User
Nice. I’m married for an year now
Serendipitymaybe · 51-55, M
Message me

 
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