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I Am Married

It wasn't long before, when I used to think, I need a person to share my feelings with. This was the driving factor when I decided to get married. once I was married, I had to struggle with long distance relationship as I couldn't immediately move-in with my husband. However, the time passed. The hope of getting together and starting a new phase of life drove me out of all challenges I faced. Then I moved in with him, initially the challenge was to adjust with his ways, his schedules and his expectations. Later, we entered a zone where we tolerated each other and it looked okay. Sometimes it used be bad, I used to get into self pity etc, though I got the smaller issues resolved together.

As a temporary arrangement, I had to move to my in-law's place. From almost a month, I am living with my in-laws and my husband stays in a different place. I am facing lot of issues with this arrangement. my challenge is to cope up with them at the same time doing justice to my work. I am not able to balance and I am stressed. In the mean time, I had some arguments with my husband and now he doesn't bother to pick my calls.
I don't know, if life will be same again?!
SW-User
Believe in yourself, and hope good it will be alright
IFoundLife · 41-45, F
@SW-User thank you for your kind words. These words will definitely help me.
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IFoundLife · 41-45, F
@seeandhear thanks for your kind words. It certainly helps when I post something in here. Your words will help me gather my energy.
sometimeslonelytoo · 51-55, M
If you're both committed to working it out, I think you'll manage somehow.
IFoundLife · 41-45, F
Have you looked for/found a good counselor/life coach?
I think it could be a big help.
IFoundLife · 41-45, F
@PhoenixPhail what I am currently looking for is some distraction from whirlpool of thoughts.. I sometimes read books, sometimes learn new technology or sometimes watch sitcoms.. haven't thought yet about counselor.
wintersecret · 41-45, M
I hope now the things must have improved🤗
IFoundLife · 41-45, F
@wintersecret well, thanks for asking. That situation kinda improved, but some other cropped up. I have to learn to live my life, without much bothering about others around me. 😊

 
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