I don't want her there.

I don't trust my friend and I have trust issues after a previous friend tried to steal my ex boyfriend. She did everything she could to get him and when it didn't work she was spiteful to me and said she was prettier, slimmer and more intelligent than me.
My current best friend who I have known for 3 years is beautiful to look at - blond and stunning but despite that is very unlucky with men. She makes me worry though.. she has admitted she would make a play for any man she liked even if married.
I feel very insecure becaue she has started wanting to come out with myself and my boyfriend a lot. I just feel really uneasy about it. How do I tell her nicely I don't want her there.

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SW-User

Sounds like two insecure people decided to be friends and play games with each other?
Tell her you are going on a date and a date only includes two people, you and your boyfriend.
If she insists on tagging along then she is not your friend is she?

Moonstar14 · 56-60, F

I would think that, but her current boyfriend was with a former friend of hers when she met him. That's why I worry about it. That, and she keeps saying she would go after any man she liked, going out with someone or married "but it would be harder if it was a friend". Not impossible though.

elVato · 46-50, M

@Flennflyys
...shitshow
*golf clap*

Flenflyys · 31-35, F

This is just a shitshow. You should be able to trust your bf and be confident in yourself. Sounds like you have some insecurity issues.

disasterpiece · F

If she was ur bestfriend then i dont think she would do that to u??

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