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When you find the person willing and understanding that the relationship will be loving and a whole lot of work. Love is NOT all you need! The work is not always pleasant and sometimes even hard for the relationship to be lasting.
From my experience it also involves the knowledge that this person will always be the 2nd most important person in your life (pre-children) because if you do not put God first it will be a failure. I know many on here have a thing when religion is mentioned, but for me it made all the difference in the world.
From my experience it also involves the knowledge that this person will always be the 2nd most important person in your life (pre-children) because if you do not put God first it will be a failure. I know many on here have a thing when religion is mentioned, but for me it made all the difference in the world.