I Am Married to a Control Freak
That has been my situation. Rather than wallow in self-pity here, I supply a link to a blog post by a woman who suddenly realised after years of marriage that she was an abusive control freak (the words are mine, not hers).
The woman author of the blog post in the link below tells a story that reveals a major aspect of my marriage of 26 years. I am married to a control freak that very slowly began to reform this decade.
This woman writes well, betraying considerable intelligence. In my experience, people are often not good judges of how they go wrong in ways that are not outright criminal acts.
http://brando.tickld.com/x/woman-realizes-that-shes-been-accidentally-abusing-her-husband-this-whole-time
The woman author of the blog post in the link below tells a story that reveals a major aspect of my marriage of 26 years. I am married to a control freak that very slowly began to reform this decade.
This woman writes well, betraying considerable intelligence. In my experience, people are often not good judges of how they go wrong in ways that are not outright criminal acts.
http://brando.tickld.com/x/woman-realizes-that-shes-been-accidentally-abusing-her-husband-this-whole-time
70-79, M