Cheating Addictuon

Can people get really addicted to cheating... is it like a virus that u can't get rid of, does it consume your life and especially your relationship. Or is it pleasure in secrecy. Is it the thrill that excites you and the adrenaline.

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LadyGrace

Of course they can. It gives them a rush, being secretive without getting caught.

People only change if they want to. It's not a matter of can they stop. It's a matter of will they stop or desire to. Will they get tired of it? Will they realize other actions affect others? Do they care? Are they only sorry because they got caught? These things speak volumes about a person's character and priorities.

SoloA · 46-50, M

@LadyGrace I 110% correct it does

Prince0217 · M

@LadyGrace Well said. Pereferal view of the consequences of their actiions. And everything else you said.

Perhaps an extension but:
*Some people do it because they're not happy with their partner or because the partner is doing it and wanna stay even.
*Some just carry on (Mutual understanding) but keep the relationship superficial, so they do not have to go through divorce proceedings with kids in private school, (i.e. Choices being centered on kids).

LadyGrace

@Prince0217 Yep. That doesn't make it right.