What is your failure in life?
For me, I've failed in keeping a marriage together, followed by divorce. Then failed every relationship after that. Is this a sign that I should be on my own?
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LUVELACE · T
Well if it makes you feel part of humanity,I too fucked up my marriage by not leaving the military,but I'm a career soldier n the very ex knew it,so all is ok now,I hope lol,so I don't beat myself up anymore n do the what ifs,etc.life is what I want it to be n dam do I enjoy myself
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
For ME, like you @Whiteflowerintheocean, I failed to be real and honest and present in my first marriage to my High School sweet-heart and soul mate. I let her drift away during 23yrs of marriage and lost her to another (better) lover/cocksman.
I've since learned how to be submissive and how to worship and cherish my lover as though I were their slave, instead of being demanding and controlling and selfish and cold and insensitive.
Now, I am finally happy because my partner is happy and satisfied..
It was a long journey, but worth it.
I've since learned how to be submissive and how to worship and cherish my lover as though I were their slave, instead of being demanding and controlling and selfish and cold and insensitive.
Now, I am finally happy because my partner is happy and satisfied..
It was a long journey, but worth it.
polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
@Whiteflowerintheocean: I was alone for 15 years first, before I came to the realization that I had to change myself and the way I am in an intimate relationship... before I began my transformation. THAT took me 3 yrs without guidance, until I figured myself out and how I can keep a partner happy and myself at the same time..
It was not easy..
It was not easy..
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@Whiteflowerintheocean: Good for you, people shouldn't try to control us.
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
@Dreammmer: Thank you. 😊
DrawntoaDistance · M
DrawntoaDistance · M
Don't fall into that trap of believing every negative thing that happens in your life is solely your fault. Thoughts are things, and if those negative made up ones are constantly in your head, some of those thoughts become truths about you that just were not meant to be. Do you have a good heart? If the answer is yes, then chin up girl. You are gonna be just fine.
@DrawntoaDistance: Thank you, those were some deep words that is worth noting. 😊
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@David987511: I'm on vacation from dating.
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Goralski · 56-60, M
No....ta choose better dates