I Live In a Sexless Marriage
At some point you need to ask yourself; is it worth it? I love my husband but we are so far apart at this point I am not sure there is any coming back from it...:(
51-55, F
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SoFine · 46-50, F
In long term this is normal. Why we get complacent and easily nasty.
To balance all the shity side of life, then still to have energy for fun.
Have a date night, do something new and different.
IF you make him wrong and you right, then the odds to be any different are much harder.
Your job in life is to have you be happy, not one other person will do this for you, only you.
Leave him love notes on his pillow, or in his lunch box/bag.
Have a hug every now and then.
When he comes home from work, let him release the day, say 10/15 mins. Then bombard him with the things to do. Be direct, not make hints, men hear blaaaaaa, blaaaaaaaa.
Ask him, why his sex drive is low, can be worry, is he a worry merchant or you?
To balance all the shity side of life, then still to have energy for fun.
Have a date night, do something new and different.
IF you make him wrong and you right, then the odds to be any different are much harder.
Your job in life is to have you be happy, not one other person will do this for you, only you.
Leave him love notes on his pillow, or in his lunch box/bag.
Have a hug every now and then.
When he comes home from work, let him release the day, say 10/15 mins. Then bombard him with the things to do. Be direct, not make hints, men hear blaaaaaa, blaaaaaaaa.
Ask him, why his sex drive is low, can be worry, is he a worry merchant or you?