I Live In a Sexless Marriage

At some point you need to ask yourself; is it worth it? I love my husband but we are so far apart at this point I am not sure there is any coming back from it...:(

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SagePoet · 61-69, M

My wife and I are now estranged. We had no sex in 13 years. My fault, brought too much baggage into marriage, was emotionally closed. She had enough asked for divorce. Funny thing, now that we are splitting up we're discovering each other for the first time.

updown2020 · 61-69, M

So maybe it's not the end for you two. It what both parties want if you want to stay together then fight for the marriage, The baggage will always be their if you allow it to be their.

SagePoet · 61-69, M

@updown2020: went back to therapy to get rid of baggage, we're fighting for a second chance, small steps, so far so good.

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@feathers11: Well that's good luck.

GeniUs · 56-60, M

@feathers11 when I asked my wife for a divorce (over 10 years ago) I found a side of her I'd never known before and it wasn't good!

SagePoet · 61-69, M

@GeniUs: I'm sorry.

GeniUs · 56-60, M

Don't be, it just made me all the happier that I'd left, which she then claimed that she'd 'thrown me out of the house and started divorce proceedings.'😆
To give you a sample of what was to come.