I Am Unhappy In My Marriage

That just sounds like a smokescreen. What is really going on with you as a couple, as people? That's the issue. If you were "a better Mormon", I suspect you two would still have the same issues, so don't sweat that one. Best wishes.

Can't he marry another and have 2

Perhaps he needs to apply some of the principles of his religion like kindness and consideration

I do not think much of the Mormon's Church's theology --but I do think a great deal of Mormons and the family values of the Church. I suggest you contact an elder or whoever is the appropriate person (I am not conversant in the terminology) in the hierarchy and they will provide counseling and some guidance to your husband --who I know is not acting like a good Mormon!

There's no such thing as a "good Mormon" they are all controlling assholes 😎 and the women are to be there slaves.

That sums that up

what a jerk.

does that mean the Job was a bad person because of the horrible things that happened to him?

@Tess, What was he expecting? Unhappy sounds to be an understatement. Sure as heck seems like there are some large elephants in the room; and being "Mormon" isn't one of them (especially since he wasn't when you married).

What does he do besides play video games from breakfast to bed time? He doesn't sound like he is treating you right. What was it about him that attracted you to marry him? There must have been something.

woah, he's a sociopath.

i'd sue him for divorce..

That is beyond mean.

That idiot. He is not a better mormon. He should love you for who you are

Why?