So how do you feel about marriage?

obsolete social concept in modern society

Not a fan

I love my husband but it's really hard limiting myself to one intimate male friend.

its a wonderful thing when you find the right person and people are wanting to stay commitment. society is getting fucked up with people who just want to mess around or cheat or just dont want commitment. families dont behave like families. people become less family oriented and society pays for it. people who only live with one parent dont do so well or arent as well behaved if they dont have two functioning parents.

[c=#BF0080]It's great! I've been married almost 21 yrs now.[/c]

It was hard work, painful, the blood, sweat and tears of life that pulls you closer together and it was Beautiful.

They all divorce eventually... well almost all. I love the marriages that last...let me just try to think of marriages that have lasted though *thinks* gee this is hard

My thoughts are that marriage and a relationship are two very different things. In the eyes of the law marriage is a business contract. Nothing more and nothing less. And it's the one contract that most people enter in to without having protection. They don't seem to consider that the person you divorce is not the person you marry.
Anyone who gets married without a prenup is foolish. Especially considering that marriages with prenups last longer.

Unnecessary, but nice for some (who really want to- it means something special to them) and practical for others (legal shit). Too many seem too quick to get married, though, in my view.

And many seem to think you *must* get married to be monogamous with someone forever/indefinitely.

I like the idea of someone choosing to be with me each day.
Not bound or obligated.
Not under contract.

Free will

26 years and still going. Marriage is great. It is work. It has joys and pains. But if I had my life to start over again, I would still choose marriage.

I believe that marriage can be a wonderful blessing. People mess it up.

I definitely want to get married one day. The problem is no woman would ever marry me.

Been there done that was a mistake that I'm not in a hurry to repeat.

It's no secret that I want a loving husband

Necessary but hard.

nothing really. Suits some and some reject it.

It's cool, I want it

Pointless like everything else.

scared and confused

Not my cuppa

Not the biggest fan...I view it as just a piece of paper. You don't need to be legally bound to have that relationship with someone. There are legal benefits tho, such as being able to visit them in the ICU and tax deductions.

Meh.

@Ratatouillesque: I'm just fine with either polygamy or polyandry, but I feel that monogamy is doomed to failure.

How do you feel about marriage miss ratatouilesque

Definitely in no rush for it

Nah! Never ever again!! 😖

It sucked