I Live In a Sexless Marriage

A few minutes ago my husband gave me a hug and a kiss telling how he thinks i look yummy and how he wants to make me happy.
Then he stopped after and continued what he was doing.

You see what he does. If he was violent and abusive at least that would be an excuse to walk away.

How am I going to explain "why I left" ?

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Quimliqer · 70-79, M

I would assume you have sat down with him and had a heart to heart regarding your feelings?

Alexis15 · 31-35, F

We've been doing therapy for a year now. You can read my earlier post from yesterday

SW-User

I know you were asking the lady that posted this your question! I did ask and tell my ex-wife, and even went to counseling with her. She would change for 7 days at best and then be right back to where we were before every time. Tried counselling several times too! I did not find or develop my fetish of cross dressing until we were post divorce for several years, so that had no play in my marriage either!

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

Alexis, I just read your previous post and am now informed..Your marriage is going nowhere all because you have a husband that does not want to better himself. It seems as he's hiding behind therapy to placate you, possibly to try and keep you in this union...tell him you want to be a Hotwife to satiate your desires....

Alexis15 · 31-35, F

@Quimliqer: I'm gonna have that talk with him soon. I pray I develope some courage soon

Quimliqer · 70-79, M

@Alexis15: Alexis, the past is history and cannot be changed as is his willingness to change. Blaze a new path and hopefully he understands your motivation for doing so.