I Live In a Sexless Marriage

A few minutes ago my husband gave me a hug and a kiss telling how he thinks i look yummy and how he wants to make me happy.
Then he stopped after and continued what he was doing.

You see what he does. If he was violent and abusive at least that would be an excuse to walk away.

How am I going to explain "why I left" ?

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Eir089 · F

How long has he been doing that?

Alexis15 · 31-35, F

Since we ever got married. He's a good guy. The only issue we have is no sex

Eir089 · F

@Alexis15: that's heartbreaking. I guess some guys don't have any libido. If you get along well otherwise, it makes it difficult to move on.

Nipper66 · 56-60, F

@Alexis15: same thing. He will hug me and be nice... and make basic behaviors of being interested.. but not do more. If I want anything I have to do the work of turning him on.. and it can be work. I get little back. He will be very affectionate in public! But not in the bedroom. Have realized he's a bit narcasitic and loves public 'positive attention.. a performer! Thrives in front of an audience... no audience at home... feels empty. He isn't mean and treats me well in other ways... so I don't leave him... frustrating.