Would you marry for love or for practical reasons if you can only pick one?
Would you marry for love or for practical reasons if you can only pick one or the other not both?
I would have loved to have married for both love and practicality, but I married because I accidentally got pregnant(thats why I hate IUDs) . So i guess I can say I got married for love because I was seeing him because i loved him and still do.
Its coming up on my two year wedding anniversery in November and my parents asked if we are doing anything to celebrate. So my dad thinks you should only marry for love if you cant have both, he said he married for love. My mom thinks you should marry for practical reasons because she said she married my dad for practical reasons mainly he was a good provider.
I am hoping that marring for love is the right thing to do, honestly I didnt have many options when I was single I was only asked out by one guy in my whole life. I was the one to ask my husband out so it wasnt him. I was never interested in the guy who asked me out I gave it a shot went on a few dates to see if I would have feelings for him but I did not.
I hope that the toughest times in our marriage come early we have been though a lot together. But I often feel bad for thinking what would it have been like if I was with someone else. I would not leave my marriage because I know that obviously it would not be good I would just be single. But I guess im thinking these things because I dont know how to solve my marriage issues. We cave only been to couples counseling a few times and its because we cant afford it the insurance never covers it. But i feel i really need it.
I would have loved to have married for both love and practicality, but I married because I accidentally got pregnant(thats why I hate IUDs) . So i guess I can say I got married for love because I was seeing him because i loved him and still do.
Its coming up on my two year wedding anniversery in November and my parents asked if we are doing anything to celebrate. So my dad thinks you should only marry for love if you cant have both, he said he married for love. My mom thinks you should marry for practical reasons because she said she married my dad for practical reasons mainly he was a good provider.
I am hoping that marring for love is the right thing to do, honestly I didnt have many options when I was single I was only asked out by one guy in my whole life. I was the one to ask my husband out so it wasnt him. I was never interested in the guy who asked me out I gave it a shot went on a few dates to see if I would have feelings for him but I did not.
I hope that the toughest times in our marriage come early we have been though a lot together. But I often feel bad for thinking what would it have been like if I was with someone else. I would not leave my marriage because I know that obviously it would not be good I would just be single. But I guess im thinking these things because I dont know how to solve my marriage issues. We cave only been to couples counseling a few times and its because we cant afford it the insurance never covers it. But i feel i really need it.









