Do you think marriage is overrated nowadays?

it always has been, you could easily spend the rest of your life harmoniously with someone you love without a piece of paper, without a religious ceremony, without the wasteful purchase of single-use items like wedding dresses, and if you wish you can still give them power of attorney to do practically anything the legal dimension of marriage would confer on them as well

marriage is inherently superfluous to long-term monogamous romantic love, and is also frequently a vehicle for conservative propaganda and discrimination